Hello :)

I was just wondering what kind of women big guys go for. Is there a particular type in general or does the fact that you're a body builder not make any difference?

I've noticed that a lot of fighters (ufc etc) have really hot wives!

The reason I'm starting this thread is because I don't actually know any 'built' guys.. probably because I wouldn't even consider being friends with someone like that - because they're so far from what I'm used to seeing (either skinny, small, or fat boys).

Do you find that women tend to shy away from you because of your size? What kind of women do you attract if you have a big body? Is there any difference from if you were ever small/thin?

If I ever spoke to a big huge guy I would feel like this: :o hehe!

Hello :)

I was just wondering what kind of women big guys go for. Is there a particular type in general or does the fact that you're a body builder not make any difference?



I don't think there is any particular type that big guys go for. I think that like most people, there is wide variation in what they prefer. Overall, they might prefer fit women more than the general population, but, that is what they themselves are into, so naturally they might want somebody who shares their interests. However, there was this really big guy I used to lift with at my last gym, and his girlfriend wasn't fit at all. So, just like everybody else, there is lots of variation.

I don't think there is any particular type that big guys go for. I think that like most people, there is wide variation in what they prefer. Overall, they might prefer fit women more than the general population, but, that is what they themselves are into, so naturally they might want somebody who shares their interests. However, there was this really big guy I used to lift with at my last gym, and his girlfriend wasn't fit at all. So, just like everybody else, there is lots of variation.

Well said:nod:

I can't speak for "big guys" as I don't consider myself even close to what I hope to achieve, but personally I've found that the qualities I'm attracted to have changed. Going with what JoeSchmo said, now that I'm interested in things like training and nutrition, I also interested in women who are interested in the same thing. Someone who trains hard and smart is a real bonus:spaz:

Well now you have me thinking about becoming a fighter:flex:











I really have nothing to add, I just wanted to be in this thread in case it gains momentum and develops a flirtation value.

Well now you have me thinking about becoming a fighter:flex:
I really have nothing to add, I just wanted to be in this thread in case it gains momentum and develops a flirtation value.

Is flirting not allowed on this forum?

I wouldn't consider myself a muscle man, but generally I go for in shape girls.

Is flirting not allowed on this forum?

Heh ... if it were, some of the longest running journals (in the fitness journals forum) would have been shut down long ago. :cool:

different strokes for different folks. but i doubt somebody with a great physique would date somebody with very chubby body. unless he loved her. i would date deanna even if she got fat. that's how much I love her.

Is flirting not allowed on this forum?

It's allowed, but some of us are a bunch of incompetents at it. For example today a woman was working pretty hard on cable leg exercises which were basically martial arts kicks with resistance. Some people kept walking right in front of her when she was going to rep, and she had to hold off to avoid nailing the pedestrian. I saw that about three times; then I suggested "hey why not just clock the next one?" This starts a short convesation but mainly she starts flirting with my trainer (who is quite big, and a fitness model for Nike, etc.) Also during this time this guy with a history of picking fights with people over the EZ curl bar set a pad down right where we were about to start my set of Bulgarians. So my trainer asked him very nicely to relocate on account of we didn't want to drop 185# of barbell on him - and, somewhat to my surprise, the guy simply moved to a better space. While that was going on, I attempted to continue the conversation with the lady, which was about how much she loves ab work to slim her waist. I am pretty sure the huge Calories she burns with those martial arts moves have more to do with how she keeps a trim waist, so I said "I was under the impression that your waist is due to what you eat" which she seemed to take the wrong way. She replied that "we don't notice old guys anyway." I'm not quite sure what that was about. So I proceeded with my Bulgarians.

It's allowed, but some of us are a bunch of incompetents at it. For example today a woman was working pretty hard on cable leg exercises which were basically martial arts kicks with resistance. Some people kept walking right in front of her when she was going to rep, and she had to hold off to avoid nailing the pedestrian. I saw that about three times; then I suggested "hey why not just clock the next one?" This starts a short convesation but mainly she starts flirting with my trainer (who is quite big, and a fitness model for Nike, etc.) Also during this time this guy with a history of picking fights with people over the EZ curl bar set a pad down right where we were about to start my set of Bulgarians. So my trainer asked him very nicely to relocate on account of we didn't want to drop 185# of barbell on him - and, somewhat to my surprise, the guy simply moved to a better space. While that was going on, I attempted to continue the conversation with the lady, which was about how much she loves ab work to slim her waist. I am pretty sure the huge Calories she burns with those martial arts moves have more to do with how she keeps a trim waist, so I said "I was under the impression that your waist is due to what you eat" which she seemed to take the wrong way. She replied that "we don't notice old guys anyway." I'm not quite sure what that was about. So I proceeded with my Bulgarians.

I don't know what happened there either lol

I don't know what happened there either lol

I dunno where it came from, but I do know what happened.

http://img380.imageshack.us/img380/2882/owned9wz.jpg

I attempted to continue the conversation with the lady, which was about how much she loves ab work to slim her waist. I am pretty sure the huge Calories she burns with those martial arts moves have more to do with how she keeps a trim waist, so I said "I was under the impression that your waist is due to what you eat" which she seemed to take the wrong way.

She was probably annoyed because you basically implied that she didn't know what she was talking about.

You know what turns me off the fastest now that I'm into lifting? Bad posture. I see someone with kyphosis and rounded over shoulders and I'm like "WTF is wrong with you, why don't you stand up straight and/or do some pulls to fix yourself?" I don't think I could date anyone that had that going on. It's so not hot.

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Things that are hot? Broad shoulders and muscular quads.

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On behalf of all men, fat, skinny, athletic, muscular, enormous, etc... we like this:

http://mickaloha.com/images/alba.jpg

Hope that helps.

On behalf of all men, fat, skinny, athletic, muscular, enormous, etc... we like this:

http://mickaloha.com/images/alba.jpg

Hope that helps.

overplayed, overrated.

It's allowed, but some of us are a bunch of incompetents at it. For example today a woman was working pretty hard on cable leg exercises which were basically martial arts kicks with resistance. Some people kept walking right in front of her when she was going to rep, and she had to hold off to avoid nailing the pedestrian. I saw that about three times; then I suggested "hey why not just clock the next one?" This starts a short convesation but mainly she starts flirting with my trainer (who is quite big, and a fitness model for Nike, etc.) Also during this time this guy with a history of picking fights with people over the EZ curl bar set a pad down right where we were about to start my set of Bulgarians. So my trainer asked him very nicely to relocate on account of we didn't want to drop 185# of barbell on him - and, somewhat to my surprise, the guy simply moved to a better space. While that was going on, I attempted to continue the conversation with the lady, which was about how much she loves ab work to slim her waist. I am pretty sure the huge Calories she burns with those martial arts moves have more to do with how she keeps a trim waist, so I said "I was under the impression that your waist is due to what you eat" which she seemed to take the wrong way. She replied that "we don't notice old guys anyway." I'm not quite sure what that was about. So I proceeded with my Bulgarians.

Next time you see her, say "wow your cuticles look so toned today". If she acts the same tell her to adjust her gym behaviour young lady.

A good response last time "old people" comment would have been "damn girl I was just trying to pay you a compliment but come to think of it you could stand to lose a few." Haha.

Some people need to be put in their place. Especially when they throw their shit on nice people :)

overplayed, overrated.
I respectfully disagree. There's a reason for it.

That said, another example:

http://www.timboucher.com/journal/wp-content/uploads/2006/11/scarlett_johansson_allure.jpg

Girls that don't run away screaming in my presence...that's what I like.

Some people need to be put in their place. Especially when they throw their shit on nice people :)

Here in New York, so mild levels of trash talk between New Yorkers is more in the line of common pleasantries. This one was just one of those shots that came from behind a screen.

Here in New York, so mild levels of trash talk between New Yorkers is more in the line of common pleasantries. This one was just one of those shots that came from behind a screen.

Sounded more lke she was being something else, but I wasn't there. Either way you could definitely tease her back good.

I would have kicked her in the face.

Is flirting not allowed on this forum?

Ask Doordude. :D



NICE Karatetricker! :tu:

That said, another example:

:dreamy:

Anyway, thanks for all your replies.. lol

One of my friends told me that big guys like small girls. He's quite big and can lift 250kg :eek: Anyway I think he is totally hot - but before liking him I was always into 'boyish' types. Now I'm really interested in guys with a bigger body - but also a really mature and calm personality.. like takes all his frustration or male aggression out in his training, and out of training he is a big, warm, loving and caring guy...

Things aren't going so well with him at the moment :( I kinda screwed up!

I go to the gym a lot anyway, and I have nice biceps and triceps and those muscles above the biceps... and I have really defined leg muscles - but they're not skinny legs though...

He's quite big and can lift 250kg :eek: Anyway I think he is totally hot - but before liking him I was always into 'boyish' types. Now I'm really interested in guys with a bigger body - but also a really mature and calm personality.. like takes all his frustration or male aggression out in his training, and out of training he is a big, warm, loving and caring guy....

I have the mature and calm personality thing going on. Until it just started raining here it was 90 degrees (Farenheit) here so I was totally hot. Unfortunately I can only lift 218kg.

Ghetto booty. :madpimp:

I have the mature and calm personality thing going on. Until it just started raining here it was 90 degrees (Farenheit) here so I was totally hot. Unfortunately I can only lift 218kg.
:lol:

I love curvy girls, big ass, big boobs, the works. The typical puerto rican girl, I guess you can say, it explains it, I do have a little latin blood in me.

I like big boobs too. TITS OR GTFO!

I have no boobs :( I have a really nice bum though... my legs are short and solid.. not delicate and long...

do you think any guys will find that attractive? Oh yeah, I can't dance either.

lol

I have no boobs :( I have a really nice bum though... my legs are short and solid.. not delicate and long...

do you think any guys will find that attractive? Oh yeah, I can't dance either.

Is that you in your avatar?

Edit: I'll assume yes, since it looks like the person in your profile pick.

You'd probably better e-mail me some more pics so I can give you a complete expert opinion.

Is that you in your avatar?

Edit: I'll assume yes, since it looks like the person in your profile pick.

You'd probably better e-mail me some more pics so I can give you a complete expert opinion.

:lol:

Reminds me of a song I heard this morning...


Ima Ima Ima Ima flirt
Soon as I see her walk up in the club Ima flirt
Winkin' eyes at me when I roll up on dem dubs Ima flirt
Sometimes when I'm wit my chick on the low Ima flirt
And when she's wit her man lookin' at me damn right Ima flirt
So homie don't bring your girl to me to meet cause Ima flirt
And baby don't bring your girlfriend to eat cause Ima flirt
Please believe it unless your game is tight and you trust herrrrr
Then don't bring her round me cause Ima flirt

:lol:

Reminds me of a song I heard this morning...

I'm way ahead of you.;)


I really have nothing to add, I just wanted to be in this thread in case it gains momentum and develops a flirtation value.

Seems I somehow missed this one at its prime, but as for me, I would want my girl to be in shape, toned, more of a runners body, not the whole glamor shots that were put up earlier, just someone who is humble, but when pushed will stand up for herself and knock you out, that would be hot.

I don't think there is any particular type that big guys go for. I think that like most people, there is wide variation in what they prefer. Overall, they might prefer fit women more than the general population, but, that is what they themselves are into, so naturally they might want somebody who shares their interests. However, there was this really big guy I used to lift with at my last gym, and his girlfriend wasn't fit at all. So, just like everybody else, there is lots of variation.

Pretty much sums up everything.

You never know what's going on inside another person's head and it is hard to generalize.

Personally, I'd probably get sick of a girl if the only reason she was dating me is because of my muscles.

I love curvy girls, big ass, big boobs, the works. The typical puerto rican girl, I guess you can say, it explains it, I do have a little latin blood in me.

+1 :tu::tucool::nod::nod:

I also like curvy girls...nothing fat, but def. curvy. I'm not into the standard hollywood look. I didn't think there was anything special about that Jessica Alba pic. She's hot, but nothing exceptional. I am, however, a big fan of Salma Hayek...now she is SMOOOKIN!

I have the mature and calm personality thing going on. Until it just started raining here it was 90 degrees (Farenheit) here so I was totally hot. Unfortunately I can only lift 218kg.

:lol: